Being polite to others is an important skill that every child needs to learn. Courtesy and respect can open many doors, teach children to value their environment and look decent in the eyes of society.
How to teach a child politeness skills? We'll tell you in this article!
#1 Repeat after me!
An example is the best way to teach a child something. To ensure that children treat others with courtesy and courtesy, act the same way towards them and those around them.
#2 Say “thank you” to me
Explain to your child why it is important to thank others. Use games and role plays to train your gratitude skills. For example, play at a store where your child can be a buyer and seller. When a child thanks you or others, be sure to praise them for it. A positive response helps to reinforce the right behavior. If a child forgets to say thank you, gently remind them, but don't criticize them.
Also, come up with family traditions that involve showing gratitude. For example, before dinner, everyone can share what they're thankful for the past day.
#3 Look me in the eye
When we look someone in the eye, we show respect for their opinion and our interest in the conversation.
If the other person sees that they are looking into the eye, they feel confident and open.
Eye contact helps you communicate your thoughts and feelings more effectively, and it also creates an emotional connection between people.
#4 Hear me out!
The ability to listen and not to interrupt other people contributes to effective communication and mutual understanding. This skill creates an atmosphere of trust and mutual respect between interlocutors.
Explain to your child that interrupting, he runs the risk of missing important details. By listening carefully, we better understand the other person's point of view.
Moreover, we develop the ability to understand and empathize with other people's experiences and avoid unnecessary conflicts.
#5 Don't be afraid of your feelings
We all have difficult moments when we are angry at others, but every adult's task is to try to control themselves.
However, you should not hide or suppress emotions by thinking about good manners.
Learn for yourself and explain to your child how to express anger and other negative emotions in a healthy way without degrading anyone's dignity.
#6 Watch how others do it
Watch movies and read books with your child where characters learn to be polite to others. Talk about what you've seen or read. Ask your child what he would do in a given situation.
#7 Solve conflicts peacefully
Explain to your child that in any situation it is important to maintain dignity and not become “personal”. Say that rudeness will not lead to anything good, but will only exacerbate the conflict. Any difficult situation can be resolved with the help of polite words and a peaceful attitude.
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